An astute comment from a new friend about meeting new friends:
"There is the whole f**cked-up-ness theory we have to be aware of: If the
other person is more f**cked up then you then you are just wierded out; if
on the other hand you are more f**cked up then the other person - you end up
feeling like a total wanker."
I figure you are what you are what you are what you are... so there! And as my mom would say ... "What's NORMAL anyways??????" !!