Friday, April 27, 2007

are we all just waiting for the 'one' to come home?

I have a lot of people in my life right now that are pining, waiting for, or trying to get over the 'one'. A few of them are in loving, stable relationships but a piece of their heart resides with the 'one'.

Do we all do this?

Spend time with one another, meet others and run around filling our time until the 'one' comes back to his or her proper place? If you really feel like you should be with the 'one' can someone else actually distract you enough to make you move forward?

Does anyone ever fall for their 'distraction' while waiting for the 'one' to come back?

It has never worked for me. The person in my heart is just there and has been stuck there it seems forever. But who knows, I'll give anything a try. =) Dating is a hard job, but someone has to do it! =)

What is that ridiculous saying (or was it a song?) "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with?". There are a lot of people trying that out right now. I think at some point everyone must try it?

This entry sounds a little like I am talking in riddles or codes or have little secrets. Maybe I do, maybe I dont but it is my blog and I'm the star of this show and sometimes I need to write things out without actually telling you all anything! A girl has to have some secrets!

Anyways - Megan (the daughter) - I think mama might finally be cool (so NOT). Last night, on a school night no less(!), I ended up at a party in an old converted church with a bunch of physicists! Mama stayed up past 10 pm! I was drinking water and taking aspirin by midnight but still... =)

The word debauchery came up. It is now my word of the day.


1. excessive indulgence in sensual pleasures; intemperance.
2. archaic. seduction from duty, allegiance, or virtue.

...As in Tommy Lee and Pamela Anderson, Motley Crue, Theory of A Deadman and Default - all of which I am giving up today to listen to a gift I was given yesterday: a mixed cd which includes Sarah Harmer, Amos Lee, Ani DiFranco and Jane Siberry.

Wish me luck, I'm branching out!


Tbone said...

I am soooo hearing you. I broke up with my ex over 2 years ago...I have dated and met amazing men, but the one I left is stuck in my heart...and I often think he is the "one"...but I am the one who left...crazy I know...I think you love everyone differently and every person you meet brings a different side of you maybe you just need to find another who gave you that feeling the 'one' gave you...I hear its possible, so my friends keep telling me.


de·bauch·er·y... good word!

Steve's been throwing that one around lately. Totally in the wrong context of course, but cute as hell when he does it.

KellyNerd said...

TBone - here's to finding the new 'one'!

Marf - I know, love the word... conjures up all kinds of fun images!